男人VS女人

Chris sent me somethig interesting...

男人必知：
（1）别以为女人是你肚子里的蛔虫，你爱不爱她，你什么都不说，什么也不做，她怎么会知道？
（2）别在女人撒娇的时候冷落她，除非她在你心中已经不重要了。
（3）性关系对女人来说，远远没有男人想得那么重要。
（4）当你已经不能察觉她的外观改变， 或许她真的不重要了。
（5）女人也有自尊。
（6）她静默时，别问她为什么，只需给她一个拥抱。
（7）女人对于爱情的需要和男人对于性的需要是一样多，所以不要指责她对与爱情的追求是奢侈的。
（8）如果女人让你感觉疲惫，或许你已经放弃了。。。

Little red monster...

Waiting for my little red monster...
I must be patient...4 more days...says doggy...
Puppy eating dog food, wait and wait and wait....

Ring

Bought myself a ring yesterday...Ha

Reason when one ask: to cover the scar on my minddle finger

Actual reason: I want something on my fingers

So i regard this as my lucky charm. Just to give myself a reason to be happy and felt lucky, though the fact that I do not have a lasy like fingers do upset me a little...I still feel luky.

Waiting for my red monster to come back!!!! Can't wait!

无题

偶尔我会想起
你对我的好
那我负担不起的好

偶尔我也想对你好
只是这样的好
你同样也承受不起

这样就好
偶尔的问候
永远的祝福
我们当一辈子的朋友

循环

Wayne说人永远不可能改变。现在，我似乎可以了解他的意思。尽管他多想为你改变，可是事情终究是不可能。 感觉就像一种循环， 不断地兜圈子。好累。。。

我想证明给他看，爱一个人， 你真的可以为他做很多很多事情。我想为他做很多很多，直到我的心死了， 那么一切就可以结束。

到底是我不知足，还是根本我要的他给不起？认识我们的人会说， 你把事情想得太严重了。 或许吧。。。

脆弱

承认自己脆弱
看报纸会哭
看电视会哭
听音乐会哭
就连说起你都会哭

离开我的这几天
你都不想我吗？

你说很乱
脑里有很多问号
难道对于我们之间
你没有一件确定的事情吗

是我的错？

平说是因为我的关系。。。

So...fats or health?

"It is scientific proven that fats at the bottom are good fats. It's what keep a person healthy"

"Huh? I don't want that to be the reason of being healthy!"

"Well, pear-shape woman are healthier than other body type."

"Now I know why African women are so strong and healthy! But...I DON'T WANT!!!!"

Just a song...

只有回忆 <蝴蝶飞> 主题曲
作曲: Guy Zerafa Dave Klotz
作词:林夕

总是在 消失了才看个明白
手一松 心就会期待

总是在 静下来心跳.如钟摆
才无处可逃 要对自己坦白

快乐总存放于未来
忘记了抚摸现在

遗憾在 念念不忘受过伤害
才怀疑 那是因为爱

遗憾在 失去了沉默的关怀
才醒悟感情原来无需表白

遗憾在 发生过的不容修改
眼泪是 为过去还债

最遗憾再 爱总是来不及明白
只有回忆能证明最爱何在

快乐总存放于未来
忘记了抚摸现在

可惜在 要把一切放下来
才感到 曾经存在

纠缠时 眼睛睁不开
清醒时 只有无奈

Listen vs. Hearing....

I am so pissed today. Had a hard time at work and came home wanting so much to tell PingEn about what had happen. But he is not listening!!!! I mean, of cause he heard me. But he is just simply not listening. Because while I was trying to explain what happen, he told me about what would he do in an irrelevent situation. Hello....ARE YOU THERE?

Fnd it so hard to talk to him about work. Although we work in a a same environment, he just don't seem to understand form my point of view.I am not asking for any advice and you need not relate any irrelevant info. Why can't you just listen????

A good cat should not block...

So, here goes the saying "好狗不挡路". But really I think it should be cat now...

What happen was PingEn and I were on our way to the famous BLK 85 for my favourite dessert. Then as we were walking there, there is this big fat cat sitting at the side of the road. I suspect she is pregnant...but anyway...

Then as we were walking past her, she suddenly walk in front of us and calmly sit down blocking our way to proceed. Now, that's weird. As we tried to walk past her, she would stand up and block us from moving. This doesnt happen just once, but a few times, as if she deliberately doing it. I know this sound weird, but when you see a "fat" cat, with her big grey eyes staring at you and not allowing you to past. That's scary!!!

I thought I could see her smilling and say :" 这就是闯进我地盘的后果!!!" . Then PingEn make a attempt to step forward causing a "slap" sound. That's when she would move and let us through.

PingEn later said: " What she want from us? Food?". Well, I hope it's just food she wants...

Haha...a big ghostly isn't it? Well, who knows? Could be a good start of a horror story plot. Well, cat in my mind is always a bit "spiritual" kind of animal...so I can't help but thinking at that direction...

BEWARE: DID YOU SEE A FAT BROWN CAT AROUND YOUR HOUSE....?=P

PS, I Love You...

Yupe so here I am reading Cecelia Ahern's novel. Her first and newest one the big screen. I swear I didn't first notice the movie before I seen the novel. In fact I first known about this book when I was back in Malaysia a couple of months back and saw it in the bookstore. Glanced through the the short synopsis and thought it is interesting to read. Have decided to get it when I am back in Singapore. For some reason, books in Malaysia is more expensive then in Singapore.

This book is great. Never a book make me so sad and cry every time Holly ( the main character) read the envelope from her late husband. I agreed with the book cover: " Everyone needs a guardian angel. " Who is better than the one you loved most?

So now I am a big fan of Cecelia Ahern...Glancing her other book and find it equally interesting. New "toy" for me for next two months...

Speak up!

Yes...I have said it.

For weeks...I have been stuggling to speak up. Wanting so much to tell yet afraid to hurt.
Surely he felt it. I know. But he just wouldn't say it.
So the more he remain silent, the more frustraited I am. I certainly doesnt help when my friend was complaining about her boyfriend and almost break down in tears. Am mine any better? Somehow the image of her boyfriend overlap with mine. God, give me a break!

So, I have told him. Pleading him to tell me what is he really thinking. No more Mr. Nice Guy! Throw me your tantrum if you want. Tell me you are as irritate as I am . I want nothing buut the truth...Please...

当下

昨晚 我看得出你的不舍
可是你还是离开
如果我挽留
你大概也会留下吧？
只是我没有
因为我累了
只有我需要你而你不需要我

在一起的时间太短
所以这样就好
见面的时候开开心心

好像习惯了
我把自己分成两半
一个简单开心的自己
一个面对现实的自己
出乎意料地我调适得很好

以前我会往很远很远的地方看
现在我只在乎当下

心有灵犀

不知大家相信“心灵感应”这一回事呢？

简单来说，就是就算没有说出口，没有见到面，距离很遥远，可是就是能够奇迹似地感应到对方。

可以说是“心有灵犀”，或者是“心灵相通”？

这样的事情常常发生在我身上哦！感觉低落的时候，收到了福集的问候。就如他说的：“你此刻是不是很温暖呢？”对，很温暖。心，很暖。

刚刚正在想：“再不打来，我就要生气了！”。突然，电话响了。是平。听到渴望的声音，感觉就很精神！

现在想想，这样的事情常常发生在我身上。冥冥中，有一种被守护着的感觉。哈！

一时冲动

今天一整天闷在家里K书，感觉快要窒息了。

看着闷闷的天气，自己的心情也调入了谷地。于是决定去修一修头发，或许换个新发型还是怎样。。。

基本上是不想剪短，因为留了那么久，感觉很可惜。而且这是之从我小学六年级后到现在，唯一一次留那么长。

和发型师聊了聊，于是决定保留长度，只作个修剪。改变的就只有留海吧？她说小小的留海对整体是有很大的改变的。

你们说呢？

不过她在剪下那7寸留海时，我的心着实痛了一下。啊。。。一时冲动的决定，会是灾难的开始吗？算了，已经回不了头了。

在剪头发的同时读着杂志，上面说：剪头发，改变形象，对于改变心情是很有帮助的，会有焕然一新的感觉。

心情忧郁吗？去剪个头发吧？

Night In Paris...

从来没有想过，仅有“一面之缘”的陌生人会成为朋友。可是缘分往往就是很微妙的。

今天受邀到KEN－SAN和YOSHIKA－SAN 的家吃晚饭。原想我们只是第二次见面，大概只会在餐馆吃一餐吧？可是他们却邀请我到他们的家去。对他们而言，我应该只是陌生人吧？然而他们却邀请我到他们家去，这某种程度上是种信任，让我乱感动的。不但如此，他们还很大方地让我带同事一起。

途中向路人问路。虽然是路人，但是却是个大帅哥。可惜RUI 的拍照技术有限，没拍到他的样子。不过这位帅哥很特别，除了以直排轮代步，还随身带着巴黎市地图，超可爱的！

找到了！RUE ST.CLAUDE。

外观不赖，里面更特别。

原来这原本是个很老旧的工厂，现在经过改建，仍保留了很多旧建筑物风格，包括这台升降机。我和RUI 花了不少时间才找出打开它铁栅的办法。

材料丰富的杂锦寿司。

在物价高昂的巴黎，这些都是很难得的食材。

我们当天的“大厨”…KEN－SAN。

这是YOSHIKA－SAN初次尝试的日式甜点－焦糖梅酒草莓

好好吃的草莓派。减肥？管他呢！

好开心。。。

是缘分把我们的距离拉近：YOSHIKA，我，KEN。

我们都喝翻了。。。

YOSHIKA，我，RUI（我带去的同事）

当晚，我真心第一次那么开心自在。原来我还蛮能喝的，也很享受这样一边吃，一边喝，一边聊。带着醉意，看着远处的巴黎铁塔，一闪一闪的。。。

有福

有句话说：工作给人尊严。

具体来说，是因为有事情做，所以有担当和责任，自然就有尊严。

那么我再也不会埋怨男朋友和我的见面时间太少，毕竟我们都是都在为尊严奋斗。有着自我的私人空间，也是一种福气。

渴望自由

很开心的一天。很久很久没那么开心了。

老天仿佛也感染乐了我的好心情。好久不见的月亮星星都跑出来了。

一整天下来做了不少事情。打扫了脏乱的房间，心里一下子宽敞起来。而且还有人请吃晚餐和看电影。看了《功夫灌篮》，是一部不用太多脑细胞去消化的电影。轻松无厘头和夸张好笑的电影。有人说是浪费金钱与时间的戏。我说，何必那么认真？开心就好。

一直到现在还是很开心，心情一直是跳跃的。我承认我之前是有点钻牛角尖，把事情想得太严重了。一方面也是因为寂寞吧？ 一个人寂寞，大不了就是大喊一声“无聊” ；但是两个人的寂寞，确实无比沉默，无比难受。

和我的女房东住了有3 个多月。看着单身的她，开始觉得她应该很可怜。然而现在却越来越羡慕她的那份自由。喜欢她凡是自己决定，无需向任何人交代的自由。觉得她即使单身，也很快乐。而且那份快乐绝对是来自身的，而不取决于你的另一半。好好哦。。。

男人的附属品

WAI 说：男人是懒惰的动物。当一个男人和你谈恋爱久了，他就会TAKE THINGS FOR GRANTED。

我说：女人当初是男人的渴望，接着变成了配件，再来就是附属品，摆着好看。

这是我们两个女生在情人节后的“有感而发”。。。